OUR COUNSELLORS HELP PARENTS WITH:
  • difficult behavioural issues (screaming, shouting, swearing, talking back etc.)
  • problems with boundary-setting and discipline 
  • mental health problems (depression, anxiety, post-traumatic stress) 
  • aggression
  • low self-esteem, stress, burnout 
  • relationship issues in the family 
  • child mental health
  • navigating parenting after separation
  • blended-family adjustments
  • school problems
  • separation anxiety
  • child and adolescent adjustment to changes
  • any personal issues of the parents – guilt, emotional dysregulation and more. 

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THROUGH COUNSELLING YOU CAN:
  • feel more in control of your emotions
  • cope with depression, anxiety, post-traumatic stress 
  • be there for your child and support their emotions
  • gain useful parenting strategies
  • heal past trauma
  • relate differently to issues in the family 
  • feel supported and less alone
  • navigate parenting after separation
  • help children cope with school problems
  • alleviate separation anxiety
  • help children and teens adjust to changes

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Gabrielle McGimpsey

Gabrielle is a Narrative Therapist who lives and works in the Wellington region. As a member of a large, vibrant family, Gabrielle understands and advocates for the significant role that family can play in our lives. Gabrielle shares that her family are both her biggest cheerleaders and her support network, though it has taken, and continues to take, effort to maintain this mutual support.

It is also her family’s heart for community that led Gabrielle to become a counsellor. She began working in service of the community by supporting survivors of sexual violence for five years. This work led her to further her studies and complete a Master’s in Counselling, which she finished in 2023. Gabrielle has since met with people navigating various challenges that life can bring, including grief, loss, change, and trauma.

Gabrielle is passionate about collaborating with those she meets and believes that this collaboration will assist in reducing the territory and size of problems and challenges in people’s lives. Her hope is that by shrinking or reducing problems and challenges, families, couples, and individuals will have better access to their own knowledge and skills, which can help them move closer to the things, people, and hopes that are important to them. Gabrielle hopes that those who meet with her experience manaaki, safety, trust, and curiosity.

While Narrative Therapy is Gabrielle’s primary modality, she is also trained in Interactive Drawing Therapy, which she is happy to offer if it is of interest to those she meets.

Gabrielle has a special interest in working with couples and families.

Tabitha Knight

Tabitha is interested in what’s really happening for people, their relationships, challenges, hopes, and the meanings they make of their experiences. Her focus is on creating a space where clients can slow down, make sense of what’s going on, and find ways forward that feel achievable and genuine.

Drawing on frameworks from narrative therapy, family systems theory, and solution-focused approaches, Tabitha works alongside clients to explore their experiences, strengthen relationships, and move forward with clarity and confidence. She takes a pluralistic approach, meaning she tailors her work to each client’s unique needs and preferences, collaborating in the way that best supports them.

With a particular interest in couples, family dynamics and resilience, Tabitha helps clients navigate times when life feels overwhelming and when it feels like they’re treading water and want to get to a place of intentionality. Her role is to provide space for exploration and reflection, while offering practical strategies or gentle reframing where helpful, so clients can regain a sense of direction and wellbeing.

Tabitha grew up in Wellington and lives in the Hutt Valley with her husband and their four young children. Her personal and professional experiences within the neurodiversity and disability community over the past decade have deepened her appreciation for the power of empathy, advocacy, and community support. She currently contributes to several community-based neurodiversity advisory panels and in previous roles with Manaaki Tāngata Victim Support New Zealand, and the Sensitive Claims Unit in ACC worked with whānau who have experienced trauma. Additionally, Tabitha sits on the board of the Wellington Early Intervention Trust who provide early intervention therapy and support to pre-schoolers with special needs and their families.

Tabitha holds a Bachelor of Arts (Psychology) from Victoria University of Wellington and a Postgraduate Diploma in Education (Counselling and Guidance) from Massey University. She is currently completing her Master of Counselling at Massey.

Natasha de-Lautour (was Miller)

Natasha is a warm, empathic, and direct counsellor who values genuine connection and honesty in the therapeutic space. Her main therapeutic approach is pluralistic, meaning she tailors her work to suit each individual or family’s unique needs, drawing from a range of evidence-based methods. Natasha also enjoys working in a more experiential way—helping clients not just talk about change but feel and experience it within the safety of the therapeutic relationship.

Natasha’s work is grounded in the belief that with the right support, families and individuals can navigate even the most complex challenges—and come through stronger, more connected, and more resilient.

Natasha has a deep desire to support parents in working through difficult dynamics within the family unit, particularly where the attachment between parent and child has been impacted. She believes these bonds can be repaired, and when nurtured with care and intention, can become stronger than ever. Helping parents with the emotional and behavioural challenges faced in parenting has become an area of focus for Natasha. Some of Natasha’s experience has come from her growing understanding of her own family and children which incorporates blended “splendid” family dynamics. She brings not only her professional training but also lived experience into the therapy room. She understands first-hand how powerful therapy can be in helping families reconnect—Natasha has witnessed its impact both personally and professionally.

Natasha holds a degree in Counselling and Addictions. She is trained in Level 1 and 2 Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFCT)—an evidence-based approach developed by Dr. Sue Johnson that focuses on the emotional experiences and attachment needs of each partner. She’s passionate about helping couples better understand and respond to each other’s emotions in ways that foster deeper intimacy, safety, and connection.

Natasha enjoys supporting clients in reframing their emotional language—helping them to better understand, express, and respond to emotions in themselves and others. This emotional awareness is key to building healthier, more fulfilling relationships, whether within couples, families, or broader support systems.

Whether you are a parent, partner, or individual seeking change, Natasha offers a space that is compassionate, honest, and is deeply committed to your growth and healing.

Session Costs:

Adult: $90
Couples: $120
Child: $70
Whanau (3 or more in a session) $160

Community Service Card Holders:

Adult: $70
Couples: $90
Child: $40
Whanau (3 or more in a session) $120

In person sessions are at our office on Level 2, 95-99 Molesworth Street in Thorndon, Wellington. Online sessions take place on Zoom.

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Counselling Referral

Your referral will be actioned within 2 working days. If your referral is urgent please give us call on 04 802 5767

We are aware you may get an error message after you submit your referral. Please know your referral is still coming through to us, we are working on fixing this issues asap.

IMPORTANT INFORMATION

All you need to know about counselling

How much does it cost?

Adult: $90
Couples: $120
Child: $70
Whanau (3 or more in a session) $160

Community Service Card Holders:

Adult: $70
Couples: $90
Child: $40
Whanau (3 or more in a session) $120

If finances are a barrier for you,  let us know when you book and we will discuss options with you.

If you are entitled to the WINZ Counselling Disability allowance we can help you fill in that form.

Where do the sessions take place?

In person sessions are at our office Level 2, Thorndon Rise, 95-98 Molesworth Street, Thorndon, Wellington. Note, we are opposite Thorndon New World. The building is wheelchair accessible.

There is paid parking available in the near vicinity, we are also on a bus route as well as only being a 10 minute walk from the Wellington train station.

Online sessions take place on Zoom platform through a video call. If your session is on Zoom, you will receive a link to the appointment video call by email prior to your appointment time.

Counselling is offered to clients throughout New Zealand, you do not have to live in Wellington to access our service.

Do you do couples/children counselling?

Yes! We offer counselling to individuals, children, teens, couples, families and blended families.

If you are looking for counselling for a child, the initial session is always for the caregiver(s) without the child. Working with the child will be discussed with our counsellor during the appointment.

What kind of issues do you help with?

We offer counselling service for:

  • family problems
  • behavioural difficulties
  • relationship issues
  • navigating parenting after separation
  • blended-family adjustments
  • school problems
  • child and adolescent counselling and therapy
  • individual parenting sessions
  • personal issues
  • mental health problems

    This list is not finite, there are no issues too big or too small.

What if I need to cancel?

We understand that life happens!

You can cancel or reschedule your appointment at least 24 hours prior to your session. If you cancel or reschedule within 24h of your appointment, you may still be charged the full fee.

No shows or cancelled appointments that occur three times in a row may require non refundable pre-payment for the next booking.

How do I pay for the session?

You can pay by EFTPOS after your session or we can invoice you.

Please let reception know if you require an invoice. All invoices need to be paid within a week of your session unless an arrangement has been made with us.

If you pay by bank transfer, you can find the details below. Make sure that you include your name and date of the session.

Payment is to be made via bank transfer to Parent Help bank account 38 9022 044316 00

How do I know I can trust the counsellor?

You can expect the counselor to:

  • be trustworthy
  • respect your confidentiality
  • listen to you carefully and sensitively
  • discuss issues that are relevant and preferable to you
  • support you in making the changes you choose

Our counsellors are professionally trained and adhere to the code of ethics of the New Zealand Association of Counsellor’s, the New Zealand Association of Psychotherapists or DAPAANZ and the Parent Help Code of Ethics. This means that you can have confidence that you will receive best quality of service.

All our counsellors are affiliates or members of either NZAC, DAPAANZ, NZ Psychologist Board or similar.

How to do Zoom Counselling?

You will need an adequate broadband signal and device with a webcam – smartphone, tablet, computer or laptop.

At the time of the session, you just click on the link which you will receive before the session. If you have never used Zoom before you may be asked to install the app. Follow the instructions and select “Run” to install.

You will also have a quiet and private space so that privacy and confidentiality can be maintained in the work. Please let your counselor know if this may be a challenge for you so you can work with them to manage that.

How many sessions will I need?

Tricky question.. that depends!

It’s a great question to ask your counsellor when you first meet. Sometimes one session is enough but often you may discover that you would benefit from longer-term support. On average clients we see have between 3 and 8 sessions, however this does vary greatly due to the individual needs of each person.

How often are the sessions?

This is something you will discuss during your initial appointment. Usually the sessions are weekly or fortnightly but that’s something you can agree on with the counsellor depending on your availability, other commitments, finances and the change you expect to see as a result of counselling.

We do book up quickly, there may be times where the time frame between your appointments is longer than you would like. Please ask to be placed on the waitlist as we can call you when a space comes up earlier should we get a cancellation.

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